My dearest love, you deserve to have so much peace, happiness and unconditional love in your life.
There are times we crave unconditional love from those close to us. But the truth is love is and should be conditional from others.
Other people need to have their own boundaries in place for what they will and will not tolerate from others, regardless of their relationship with us.
It is only self-love that can be truly unconditional.
If you make it your priority to give unconditional love to yourself first and foremost, there will never be a reason to feel the need to chase that feeling outside of yourself.
You can think of self-love as YOU being your lover, mother, father, and so on, so that you bestow on yourself what we’ve been conditioned to think only someone else can and should give us.
Why wait for someone else to come along and show you the love you’ve been waiting for or to treat you to a vacation, buy you flowers, or make you a nice dinner?
When you put more of your energy into fostering your love for yourself, the love you seek will already be there, before any new relationship begins.
Relationships are a reflection of your relationship with yourself.
In order for someone else to be able to fall deeply in love with you, you must first fall deeply in love with yourself.
XOXO
